The reasons for attendance are as diverse as the members. Some are there to determine if they have food issues, while others seek support as they recover from issues like compulsive overeating, food addiction, binge eating, and negative body image. Since OA members share a strained relationship with food, eating disorders may be common amongst OA members. Founded in 1960, the OA approach is based on the Twelve Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), which focuses on physical, emotional, and spiritual elements. According to their bylaws and policies, the only requirement for OA membership is the desire to stop eating compulsively. OA believes that compulsive eating is a disease like alcoholism, which is why it is based on the Twelve Steps of AA.
How to Access OA
OA meetings are available in person and virtually. Face-to-face sessions take place in a safe space where members sit around a table or in a circle of chairs. To find a face-to-face meeting location near you, use the search option on the OA website. If you go virtual, meetings can happen online, over the phone, via text message, or video conferencing. You can search for all meeting types on their website. Similar to online meetings, OA also offers telephone meetings. Calls into phone meetings are not toll-free, so long-distance charges may apply. You can search for a phone meeting based on your time zone.
Attending OA Meetings
OA meetings are a safe place for all people. There are no weigh-ins, membership fees, or judgement. That said, many members do contribute financially to the program. OA literature states that the OA Fellowship is self-supporting through member contributions, neither soliciting nor accepting outside donations.
What Are OA Meetings Like?
Most meetings last about one hour, but members often gather and talk after the meeting time is over. Members are asked to share their first name during an initial meeting but are not required to share any further information. You can participate as much or as little as you want. The typical group size can range from between five and 30, but most are around 10 to 15. Meetings follow a format led by a volunteer. After introductions, the leader may present a speaker or read from OA literature. They may also recite the serenity prayer. You are free to attend as many meetings as you like each week, including both in-person and virtually.
Shares
Then the meeting is opened for “shares.” During this time, members can talk about issues around food and how working the Twelve Step program of OA is helping with recovery. Once the meeting ends, attendees can visit with individual members or ask questions of the leader.
Virtual Meetings
Online OA meetings are open to anyone. Virtual meeting times are available in all time zones, including outside of the United States. Since anyone can join a virtual meeting, you have the option of maintaining anonymity by using a fictitious name or no name at all.
The OA Program
OA is based on the Twelve-Step Fellowship. The philosophy of OA is to take everything, both successes and setbacks, one day at a time. OA has nine tools they use in the program: For example, you might start the day by reading program literature or meditating on what you read. This is often followed up with a phone call or text to a program friend or sponsor to go over your Plan of Eating for the day. If it is a meeting day, plan your schedule around it. Otherwise, end your day with a reflection on what you learned and focus on what’s ahead.
Potential Pitfalls
Like any support group for addiction and mental health issues, OA might not be the right fit for everyone. Since meetings are led by a volunteer, there is not enough support for anyone needing higher-level care, as you would find in a support group led by a mental health therapist. Also, there is a lack of emphasis on physical recovery, which plays a role in food issues. OA is based on the Twelve-Step model, so talk of God or a higher power does weave its way into meetings. Also, the program relies on your ability to discuss personal details in a group setting. OA also depends upon the strength of the sponsorship, which may not be a healthy relationship for people who are co-dependent. If any parts of the Twelve-Step model are not a good fit for you, the program may not work. If you feel like OA isn’t the right fit for you, other options are available. The National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA) offers a range of resources as well as a screening tool, online chat, and national helpline.
